Michael Van Dam, LCSW, Bountiful, Utah

Michael Van Dam, LCSW, graduated from the University of Utah with a Masters Degree in Social Work in 2002. Michael's emphasis and objective as a counselor is to assist individuals find peace and cultivate hope through the development of emotional resilience and self-reliance.  As an Acceptance and Commitment Therapist (ACT), Michael guides and motivates individuals to live values-directed lives.  As an Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT), Michael is particularly invested in strengthening marriage and family relationships.  Michael has a depth of experience assisting men break habits of sexually compulsive behavior and helping couples heal from the associated trauma.

Beyond his training as a clinical counselor, Michael became certified as a Music Therapist through Utah State University. Michael graduated with a degree in cello performance from the University of Utah and performed as a member of the Orchestra at Temple Square.

An appointment can be scheduled with Michael through contacting him at 801-815-6152.

Girls Teen Group at RSI

Teen Group: an 8 week self-esteem group discussing issues of positive self-talk, boundary setting, self-nurturing, stress management, and trust issues. Group starts September 30, 2013 Contact Lisa Bradford, LCSW, at 801.660.8441 for details.

Lisa Steed, LCSW, Bountiful, Utah.

Lisa Steed, LCSW, has over 15 years of varied experience in the field.  Her  areas of expertise include anxiety, depression and bi-polar disorder. She is experienced in marriage and family therapy, and relationship issues. She works with addiction including alcohol and drug addiction, pornography and sexual addiction. She has had extensive experience in working with sexual abuse (AMAC) and working with adolescents who are dealing with emotional, behavioral, and mental health problems and parenting education. Lisa can be reached at (801) 231-8914 to schedule an appointment at Resilient Solutions Inc, 1355 N. Main, Ste. 1, Bountiful, Utah 84010.  

Trisha Jensen, LCSW in Bountiful, Utah.

Trisha Jensen, LCSW specializes in working with women with depression and anxiety, adjustment disorders, and eating disorders.  She is experienced in working with children who suffer emotionally and behaviorally.  She works as a team with family members, teachers, school counselors, physicians, and others who may be concerned about the welfare of their loved ones in helping better the lives of their child(ren).  Trisha has experience with providing homestudies and post-placement visits for those who are in the adoption process.  Trisha also speaks Spanish.  Trisha can be reached at (801) 541-4944 to schedule an appointment.  Her office is located at Resilient Solutions, Inc, 1355 N. Main, Ste. 1 & 3, Bountiful, Utah.  

A Course on Strengthening Families

“Come Home”

A course on Strengthening Families

This course is geared toward parents, single parents, grandparents and any others seeking to fortify and secure their homes and families, recognizing the concern that family foundations are being eroded by external pressures and corrosive influences. The group is designed to be both educational and experiential such that group members will have vision and enthusiasm for what is possible for them to create in their own homes. The principles outlined will be explored through the application of music, literature, and group discussion.

   Reinforcing principles of:

1)     Seeing Things as they Really Are

2)     Creating Simplicity (Prioritizing)

3)     Securing Family Relationships

4)     Practicing Christ-like Parenting

5)     Creating Family Culture

Thursday Evenings at 7:00 – 8:30 pm

October 25 – November 29

Cost: $150

Please contact Michael Van Dam, LCSW for details

801-815-6152

Resilient Solutions, Inc.

1355 N. Main, Ste 3, Bountiful

Principles for Individuals, Couples and Families

As a counselor to individuals, couples, families, and children, I find it satisfying to be able to together with clients discover sound and at times even simple solutions to relational and/or behavioral problems that initially may appear to be complex and difficult to resolve. A model called, "The Parenting Pyramid" presented by The Arbinger Company makes a lot of sense to me. Here's a summary of what the pyramid tells us as it applies to families, though it can be generalized to groups or organizations far beyond the family. Here is how it goes:

1. Although correction is a part of parenthood, IT IS THE SMALLEST PART.

2. The key to effective correction is effective teaching.

3. The key to effective teaching is a good parent/child relationship.

4. The key to a good parent/child relationship is a good husband/wife relationship.

5. The key to a good husband/wife relationship is our personal way of being. Indeed, this quality affects every other aspect of the pyramid; that is why it is the deepest foundation.

When we are wanting to address a concern at any level of the pyramid, it becomes vital that we consider how effectively we are performing in everything that lies below that level and address those matters first or at least simultaneously with the concerns at hand.

I love being given opportunity to apply principles such as this to guide individuals, couples, and families in resolving challenges efficiently, effectively, and with much satisfaction. I can be reached at 801-815-6152 to schedule and appointment.

Michael Van Dam, LCSW

Resilient Solutions, Inc.

Teen Self-esteem Group

8-week group to increase self-esteem.  Topics will include:  self-nurturing, stress management, boundary setting, trust issues, and relationship skills.

Starts June 25th from 1:30 - 3:00 PM

Location:  Resilient Solutions, Inc, 1355 N. Main, Ste 1, Bountiful, Utah

Contact Lisa Bradford, LCSW, with any questions and to register at 801.660.8441.

Boundaries

Boundaries: Boundaries are an important part of healthy relationships and healthy living. In the book “Boundaries: When to Say Yes When to Say No to take control of your life” Dr Cloud and Dr Townsend define boundaries as “what is me and what is not me. A boundary shows me where I end and someone else begins, leading me to a sense of ownership.” When a person has an understanding of their personal boundaries then they know what they are responsible for and what they need from the people around them. Personal boundaries are individual to each person. My boundaries may be different from your boundaries. I can’t look to other people to determine what my boundaries should be; I can only find those answers within myself. If you have any questions or would like to make an appointment, you can contact Lisa Bradford at 801-660-8441.

Self-Nurturing. Lisa Bradford, LCSW

Self-Nurturing is taking care of oneself and a way to rejuvenate. Taking time to be alone with oneself and engaging in self-nurturing can be very healing. There are many ways to self-nurture. Some examples are: Take a bubble bath, take a walk, listen to relaxing music, or do yoga. Taking time everyday to self-nurture can help an individual to have a stronger inner focus and understanding of their emotions. In Anne Morrow Lindbergh’s book, she addresses the need for women to have time alone in order to find the “true essence of themselves”. Self-nurturing is a way to identify emotional needs and to rejuvenate the soul.
For more information about self-nurturing or to schedule an appointment you can contact Lisa Bradford, LCSW at 801-660-8441.

Men's Grief Group.

There are a lot of things men suffer alone. That's part of our DNA. We find great personal satisfaction in accomplishing on our own, independently. We famously won't ask for directions, won't admit when we are lost – we prefer to find our own way home. And eventually we do. Most of the time. And that's fine; that's our way.
But, as new and continuing research shows, there's one loss that men could use a little help from their friends to cope with. That's the loss of a spouse or a lover or a parent or a child or a lifelong friend. And it's often help that only other men can provide. Because we understand, many times without saying the words, where you're at, how you got there and even why. Although everyone's grieving process is unique, research shows that, faced with the loss of a spouse or partner, men report feeling “lonely, lost, dismembered, and numb.” They tend to seek activity and coping skills.

Those of us who have been where you now may find yourself (or lost yourself), after losing the love of your life, have gained a little information, have put together a kit of coping tools that belong in your garage right about now.

You are not alone and you don't need to go through this alone. There's another guy in your community in the same place as you and in this case – trust us – two or more heads and hearts are better than one.  A men’s 8-week Grief Group is being held in Bountiful starting this January 19th each Thursday evening, 5:30 - 7:00 PM for 8 weeks. If you would like to learn more about this group, give Mark de St. Aubin, LCSW, FT, a call at 801-581-8901.

Men's Grief Group

There are a lot of things men suffer alone. That's part of our DNA. We find great personal satisfaction in accomplishing on our own, independently. We famously won't ask for directions, won't admit when we are lost – we prefer to find our own way home. And eventually we do. Most of the time. And that's fine; that's our way.

But, as new and continuing research shows, there's one loss that men could use a little help from their friends to cope with. That's the loss of a spouse or a lover or a parent or a child or a lifelong friend. And it's often help that only other men can provide. Because we understand, many times without saying the words, where you're at, how you got there and even why. Although everyone's grieving process is unique, research shows that, faced with the loss of a spouse or partner, men report feeling “lonely, lost, dismembered, and numb.” They tend to seek activity and coping skills.
Those of us who have been where you now may find yourself (or lost yourself), after losing the love of your life, have gained a little information, have put together a kit of coping tools that belong in your garage right about now.
You are not alone and you don't need to go through this alone. There's another guy in your community in the same place as you and in this case – trust us – two or more heads and hearts are better than one. Men’s 8-week Grief Group being held in Bountiful starting this January 19th each Thursday evening for 8 weeks. If you would like to learn more about this group, give Mark de St. Aubin, LCSW, FT a call at 801-581-8901. 

SSA Parent Support Group

SSA Parent Support Group


Christy Cox, LCSW, offers a Parent Support Group for parents whose children have Same Sex Attraction. The group not only offers support and an emotional exchange with other parents, but also offers information and tools in dealing with the feelings of grief, loss, and confusion. Christy has had 7 years of group and individual counseling with this population and has a close and caring understanding of the deep challenges that individuals and families face.

Next group is:
Tuesday, January 10, @ 5:00 - 6:15 pm. $25/Group.
at Resilient Solutions, Inc, 1355 N. Main, Ste. 1, Bountiful, Utah.

Contact Christy Cox, LCSW, 801.243.4959 for details.

Men Grief Group

Men's Grief Support Group
Men handle grief differently. This 8-week group addresses the unique ways that men travel the journey of their healing from loss, whether it's from the loss of a spouse, a child, a sibling or even a close friend.

Group meetings will be a blend of workshop learning and experiential activities led by Mark de St. Aubin, LCSW, CT from the University of Utah and will be held at the Resilient Center for Grieving Families in Bountiful at 1355 N Main Ste, 1 Bountiful, UT 84010.  Cost is $120.00 for 8-week group course.  Group will begin, Thursday, January 19th, 5:30 - 7:00 PM.

For interest in enrollment or for more information, contact Mark de St. Aubin, LCSW, CT at 801-581-8901.

SSA Parent Support Group

SSA Parent Support Group
Christy Cox LCSW

We are offering a Parent Support Group for parents whose children have Same Sex Attraction. The group not only offers support and an emotional exchange with other parents, but also offers information and tools in dealing with the feelings of grief, loss, and confusion. Christy has had 7 years of group and individual counseling with this population and has a close and caring understanding of the deep challenges that individuals and families face.

Tuesday, December 13, @ 5:00 - 6:15  pm.  $25/Group.
We meet the second Tuesday of each month at Resilient Solutions, Inc, 1355 N. Main, Ste. 1, Bountiful, Utah.  Contact Christy Cox, LCSW, 801.243.4959 for details. 

Children of Divorce

See that the "children aren't forgotten" when divorce occurs.

Children who live in divorcing families often experience their primary relationships as "unpredictable and double binding". These children manage the resulting anxiety by narrowing their feelings and ideas about themselves, other people, and relationships into "very simple and rigid patterns". They become distrustful and begin to avoid closeness as a means of creating safety for themselves. They become distrustful and hard to reach such that they are difficult to engage (see "High-Conflict, Violent, and Separating Families" by Vivienne Roseby, Ph.D and Janet R. Johnston, Ph.D).

I am am now offering an interactive group designed to demystify children's responses to divorce, to reduce anxiety and shame related to their family experience, to know that "they aren't the only one", and to establish a "new normal" to help them proceed with assurance, confidence, and hope in their lives. As a Certified Music Therapist, I will incorporate musical interventions into the group format.
For information, contact Michael Van Dam, LCSW
vandam.michael@gmail.com
801-815-6152

SSA Parent Support Group.

SSA Parent Support Group

Christy Cox LCSW

We are offering a Parent Support Group for parents whose children have Same Sex Attraction. The group not only offers support and an emotional exchange with other parents, but also offers information and tools in dealing with the feelings of grief, loss, and confusion. Christy has had 7 years of group and individual counseling with this population and has a close and caring understanding of the deep challenges that individuals and families face.

Tuesday,  November 8, @ 5:00 pm. 1 ½ hours.

$25/group session

We meet the second Tuesday of each month.

Resilient Solutions, Inc.

1355 N. Main, Ste. 1

Bountiful, Utah 84010

Contact Christy Cox, 801.243.4959 for further details. 



Parenting Course.

The best way to help a struggling child is to help the family. As a therapist with LDS Family Services for ten years and now continuing my work with Resilient Solutions, many of the mental and behavioral health challenges I address as a therapist precipitate from disruptions in home life and family relationships. For this reason I am focused on strengthening families as a preemptive measure to thwart conditions that could later require complex, expensive, and extensive treatment.
When individual therapy for children is warranted, the desired outcome is achieved more effectively and efficiently when family and home life is addressed simultaneously with the child's individual therapy. Therapy is brief and the results are more lasting when the therapist serves to teach, coach, and model to parents how to become the therapist to the child themselves.

I am offering a course on strengthening the family that will guide parents in creating stability in the home and in establishing secure relationships with their children. Gospel centered principles and practices will be taught that will yield improvement in many dimensions of individual and family life.
Families have their choice between classes on Tuesday evening or Saturday mornings. The eight-week courses will begin Tuesday, November 8th at 7:00 p.m., and Saturday, November 12th at 9:00 a.m.. The cost is $175 per person or $250 per couple.

For questions or information, please contact Michael VanDam, LCSW at 801 815-6152 or vandam.michael@gmail.com.

Healing from Sexual Abuse.

RISE is a 24-week group focusing on helping women heal from the emotional trauma of sexual abuse.  This group is a Savior focused group which encourages spiritual as well as emotional healing.   Some of the topics discussed are:  healthy boundaries, fear, anger, intimacy in relationships, guilt, shame, triggers, self nurturing, trust, relaxation and forgiveness. This group has both discussion and experiential elements to encourage optimal work and healing.  The next group will begin Wednesday, September 7th, 5:00 - 6:30 PM ($40/group session).  Contact Lisa Bradford, LCSW, 801.660.8441 to register for this group or more information. 

Dealing with Emotional Trauma

RISE group (Resilient Individuals Succeeding through Emotional trauma)


RISE is a 24-week group focused on helping women deal with the emotional trauma from sexual trauma. This group is a Savior focused group that addresses topics such as fear, anger, self-nurturing, healthy boundaries, relaxation, guilt & shame, forgiveness & trust, triggers and more. 
 
For further information on this group and/or individual therapy, contact Lisa Bradford, 801.660.8441.

Loving Ourselves

Christy Cox, LCSW, will be offering a 4-week course entitled:  The Psychology of Loving Ourselves at Resilient Solutions, Inc.  This course will begin Tuesday, June 28th, 3:00 - 4:30 and is $40/group session ($160 - 4-week course.)

Contact Christy at 801.243.4959 for more information and to sign up.